Child Custody Case, Need Advice ?

I attended court today and the judge ordered both parties to have investigations involved, being we both have made claims about each other. All I was requesting was joint physical and legal custody, but, the Respondent is seeking full physical and legal custody. However, after further reviewing my case and all pertinent information in regards to this matter, I feel that it would be in the best interest of my son to be with me, his father. For many reasons that I would like to further discuss, that even the investigator him self was shell shocked to hear.
The Respondent is completely violent and an angry person.
A.She has a past history of using marijuana, speed, and other control substances
B.Has Been Domestically Violent towards me (I have police reports and pics of me scratched up)
C.Respondent is incapable of working and has not worked for 4 years
D.Respondent is unfit to take care herself, that is why she works as a prostitute And I have several emails of her soliciting for money. Saying she charges traveling and overnight charge
E.On several occasions Respondent would take her daughter on these trips, to go play hooker and be with guys, Such as Walt Disney World in Florida, and Sea World in San Diego, Ca, (I have emails to support this)
F.One incident she left her daughter home alone to go be with another guy, her daughter then left the house looking for her mother, to only be found several blocks away by a couple, cops were called (Police Report)
G.Respondent has a past history of violence with her daughters Father. (Police Reports)
H.Works as a stripper out of her surrounding cities, in Ca. Nickname Lily but does more “Prostitution” I know where this location is. .
I.Respondents daughter does not live with her mother because she is very much traumatized and afraid her mom will dump her off, to go be prostitute for the night, according to her own daughter.
J.I have witnessed Respondents interaction with her own daughter, and she yells and can be violent to her own daughter, threatening to spank her if she (daughter) does not listen to mother.
K.Respondent has already committed PERJURY by lying on County DCSS Income and Expense Declaration and being currently investigated by Attorney for my local city
L.Respondent has lied to receive Medi Cal Services in the county she resides and when in fact she did not need it. She lied about not owning a home, jaguar, property taxes, assets and income, All while knowing this is FRAUD in the State of California. (I have Property Tax info, Loan Docs and House Deed to support this) That she is does own a house. Docs she signed and is obligated for.
M. She has admitted to me that she smoked weed in her apartment while our son was in the other room, this occurred beginning of August.
N. She has not reported her income to the IRS for past three to four years, which says alot. She already has possibly FRAUD and PERJURY, But possibly Now TAX EVASION, .
O. She pays an estimated 45k in mortgage and property taxes and has a paid off Jag, but she does not work according to her Docs, Huge RED FLAG.
P. Her neighbors apartment has been raided twice for drugs, and yet they still sell drugs.
Being I know all of this she feels that she must bash me by making up false accusations about me, However, I am very well prepared and can support every single claim that I noted above. She on the other hand cannot, but merely do her best to make me look bad.
I feel it would just be in the best interest of my son to reside and live with me, I would strongly recommend anger management classes, domestic violent classes, and have her come to my city for supervised visits.
Should I go for Full Custody, while this is being investigated? I have two weeks before my next court date, I asked for joint, but maybe I should go full. What do you guys think, any advice would be great.
Does any one know of a good financial planner in Dallas area?

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my husband and i have poor credit…he’s low 500’s, i’m mid 500’s. when we sell one of our fairly new vehicles and drop that payment, that will help our score. also, his bankruptsy falls off in 2009.
I don’t think it’s possible with our credit, but he wants to try. Right now our yearly income is about $80,000-90,000. Right now we have two new vehicle payments and we’re planning on selling one of them in the next month.
Is there any hope? Is there any where you can suggest to have a better chance of getting a home loan?
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my boyfriend and i own our home with no mortgage. we have around $76,000 of equity in our home but have bad credit. is there somewhere we can go for a loan that works with the better business bureau. i want to make sure its legit.
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800+ credit rating,
San Diego, California
10-15% down payment
Need approximately $200,000 loan to purchase my first home or condo
As you can see, I have an excellent credit rating that I am very proud of. I have been told that up to 4 mortgage lenders can look at my credit before it starts to negatively affect my rating. My question is: how in the world can I find the very best rate available to me when there are hundreds of lenders out there but I can only ask a handful for pre-approval before my credit rating starts going down. I’m familiar with sites like Bankrate.com, but I’ve been told that the listings on those sites are paid advertisements and that the rates listed are often impossible to get in real life. Can anyone help with suggestions for how to narrow down the hundreds to maybe 10 or so that I can take a closer look at?
Forgot to say that I’m looking for a 30-year fixed rate, in case it matters.
I also should have said that I have asked a handful of lenders already if I can provide them with a copy of my credit report instead of them asking for it, and they have all said THEY need to request it directly. Is this an unusual policy, and should I automatically avoid lenders who do this? One of them was my bank, Bank of America, so I assume they are trustworthy…
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Is This What We Have To Look Forwarded To?

Scary Food for thought. Forward to all thinking Americans.
This is long, but enlightening. Lest you think it was written by some
right-wing kook, David Kaiser is a respected historian whose published works
have covered a broad range of topics, from European Warfare to American
League Baseball. Born in 1947, the son of a diplomat, Kaiser spent his
childhood in three capital cities: Washington D.C., Albany, New York, and
Dakar, Senegal. He attended Harvard University, graduating there in 1969
with a B.A. in history. He then spent several years more at Harvard, gaining
a PhD in history, which he obtained in 1976. He served > in the Army Reserve
from 1970 to 1976. He is a professor in the Strategy and Policy Department
of the United
States Naval War College and has previously taught at Carnegie Mellon,
Williams College and Harvard University. Kaiser’s latest book, The Road to
Dallas, about the Kennedy assassination, was just published by Harvard
University Press.
Dr. David Kaiser
“My friends, we live in the greatest nation in the history of the world. I
hope you’ll join with me as we try to change it.” - Barack Obama
History Unfolding
I am a student of history. Professionally, I have written 15 books on
history that have been published in six languages, and I have studied
history all my life. I have come to think there is something monumentally
large afoot, and I do not believe it is simply a banking crisis, or a
mortgage crisis, or a credit crisis. Yes these exist, but they are merely
single facets on a very large gemstone that is only now coming into a
sharper focus.
Something of historic proportions is happening. I can sense it because I
know how it feels, smells, what it looks like, and how people react to it..
Yes, a perfect storm may be brewing, but there is something happening within
our country that has been evolving for about ten to fifteen years. The pace
has dramatically quickened in the past two.
We demand and then codify into law the requirement that our banks make
massive loans to people we know they can never pay back? Why?
We learned just days ago that the Federal Reserve, which has little or no
real oversight by anyone, has “loaned” two trillion dollars (that is
$2,000,000,000,000) over the past few months, but will not tell us to whom
or why or disclose the terms. That is our money. Yours and mine. And that is
three times the $700 billion we all argued about so strenuously just this
past September. Who has this money? Why do they have it? Why are the terms
unavailable to us? Who asked for it? Who authorized it? I thought this was a
government of “we the people,” who loaned our powers to our elected leaders.
Apparently not.
We have spent two or more decades intentionally de-industrializing our
economy. Why?
We have intentionally dumbed down our schools, ignored our history, and no
longer teach our founding documents, why we are exceptional, and why we are
worth preserving. Students by and large cannot write, think critically,
read, or articulate. Parents are not revolting, teachers are not picketing,
school boards continue to back mediocrity. Why?
We have now established the precedent of protesting every close election
(violently in California over a proposition that is so controversial that it
simply wants marriage to remain defined as between one man and one woman.
Did you ever think such a thing possible just a decade ago?) We have
corrupted our sacred political process by allowing unelected judges to write
laws that radically change our way of life, and then mainstream Marxist
groups like ACORN and others to turn our voting system into a banana
republic. To what purpose?
Now our mortgage industry is collapsing, housing prices are in free fall,
major industries are failing, our banking system is on the verge of
collapse, social security is nearly bankrupt, as is medicare and our entire
government. Our education system is worse than a joke (I teach college and I
know precisely what I am talking about) - the list is staggering in its
length, breadth, and depth.. It is potentially 1929 x ten… And we are at
war with an enemy we cannot even name for fear of offending people of the
same religion, who, in turn, cannot wait to slit the throats of your
children if they have the opportunity to do so.
And finally, we have elected a man that no one really knows anything about,
who has never run so much as a Dairy Queen, let alone a town as big as
Wasilla, Alaska . All of his associations and alliances are with real
radicals in their chosen fields of employment, and everything we learn about
him, drip by drip, is unsettling if not downright scary (Surely you have
heard him speak about his idea to create and fund a mandatory civilian
defense force stronger than our military for use inside our borders? No? Oh,
of course. The media would never p
Loan Signing Specialists?

How can I get started as a Loan Signing Specialist. I passed my Notary Exam & Loan Signing class….I work for a Mortgage Company but not all Loans are within my area (San Diego) I would like to be a Loan Signer for other Brokers & Title Companies.
Any pro’s & con’s? Any other info is also helpful. Serious answers only please.
Thanks,
Linda
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I have an excellent credit score and good Loan to value but I dont really know where to look for lenders in San Diego. Does anyone know of any good lenders who have minimal closing charges and who offer pretty good rates? I am looking for 7/1 I/O or 30-year fixed.